Teaching Kids to Thrive

Essential Skills for Success
Debbie Thompson Silver - Education Consultant, Keynote Speaker, and Author, www.debbiesilver.com
Dedra A. Stafford - Education Consultant, Keynote Speaker, and Author, www.dedrastafford.com
Teaching Kids to Thrive
April 2017 | 288 pages | Corwin
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There’s more to student success than standards and test scores…

The modern view of student achievement focuses on high test scores, higher standards, and racing to the top. Thrive skills fit with new ESSA requirements to go beyond basic academic measurements in order to equip students for lifelong success.

Debbie Silver and Dedra Stafford present a practical handbook that guides teachers and parents in fostering learners who are socially and emotionally healthy and prepared to undertake future challenges.  Through practical examples, precise strategies, and specific tools this book demonstrates how to empower learners in areas that include:

  • Using mindfulness strategies to help students tap their inner strengths
  • Learning to self-regulate and control other executive brain functions
  • Developing growth mindsets along with perseverance and resilience
  • Cultivating a sense of responsibility, honesty, and integrity
  • Encouraging a capacity for empathy and gratitude

Grounded in decades of psychological research, Teaching Kids to Thrive merges academic, social, and self-skills to stimulate personal and school achievement.

Contents

Foreword

Foreword

About the Authors

About the Authors

Acknowledgments

Acknowledgments

INTRODUCTION

  • Why Teach Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) in the Classroom?
  • What Are the Thrive Skills?
  • Taking This Book to the Next Level (Thrive Website)
  • Thriving Together
  • CHAPTER 1. MINDFULNESS IN THE CLASSROOM: SLOWING DOWN TO SPEED UP SUCCESS
  • Why Don’t They Just Pay Attention?
  • Mindfulness: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • Using Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Beginning a Mindfulness Practice
  • Research on Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Implementation in the Classroom
  • What Supporting Mindfulness Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 2. HELPING STUDENTS WITH THEIR COMMAND AND CONTROL FUNCTIONS
  • Executive Function: What Is It?
  • The Six Skills of Executive Functioning
  • EF Skill 1: Self-Regulation and Self-Control
  • EF Skill 2: Working Memory
  • EF Skill 3: Task Initiation, Organization, and Time Management
  • EF Skill 4: Flexibility
  • EF Skill 5: Emotional Regulation
  • EF Skill 6: Focus
  • What Supporting Executive Function Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 3. CREATING STUDENT AGENCY THROUGH SELF-EFFICACY AND GROWTH MINDSET
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It?
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It Not? (Learned Helplessness)
  • Aim for the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD)
  • Students’ Beliefs About Success (Attribution Theory)
  • Growth vs. Fixed Mindsets
  • How Do We Help Students Develop Growth Mindsets?
  • What Supporting Self-Efficacy and Growth Mindset Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 4. PERSEVERANCE: PUSHING THROUGH DESPITE THE SETBACKS
  • Quit Now or Finish? What Makes the Difference?
  • Perseverance: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • What Educators Need to Know About Perseverance
  • What Does Perseverance Look Like in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Perseverance Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 5. BOUNCING BACK: TEACHING KIDS ABOUT RESILIENCE
  • Resilience: What Is It?
  • Acknowledge the Struggle
  • Normalize the Struggle
  • The Classroom as the Tribe
  • Resiliency in Boys
  • Developing Resiliency Through Competency
  • Building Hope
  • What Supporting Resilience Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 6. BUILDING A CULTURE OF RESPONSIBILITY IN THE CLASSROOM
  • Give Kids a Chance to Act Responsibly
  • Teaching Responsibility in an Entitled Society
  • Using Accountability to Promote Responsibility
  • Building a Culture of Responsibility
  • Teachers as Models of Responsibility
  • How Do We Reinforce Responsibility?
  • What Supporting Responsibility Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 7. CULTIVATING HONESTY AND INTEGRITY IN STUDENT CHOICES
  • How Do We Teach Personal Integrity?
  • How Do We Teach Academic Integrity?
  • What Do We Do When Children Cheat?
  • The Restorative Justice Approach
  • The Courage to Take a Stand
  • What Supporting Honesty and Integrity Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 8. TAPPING INTO EMPATHY
  • Empathy: What Is It?
  • Does Everyone Have Empathy?
  • What Does Empathy Look Like in Action?
  • Why Is It Important to Teach About Empathy?
  • Modeling Empathy in the Classroom
  • Service Learning Projects
  • Integrating Empathy Into the Curriculum
  • The Power of Empathy
  • What Supporting Empathy Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 9. IT’S ALL ABOUT GRATITUDE
  • “Pay It Forward” Is Still Thriving
  • Gratitude: What Is It?
  • What Research Tells Us About Gratitude
  • Why We Should Teach Gratitude in the Classroom
  • How Do We Teach Gratitude in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Gratitude Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action

Final Words

Final Words

References

References

Index

Index

Additional materials

Description

There’s more to student success than standards and test scores…

The modern view of student achievement focuses on high test scores, higher standards, and racing to the top. Thrive skills fit with new ESSA requirements to go beyond basic academic measurements in order to equip students for lifelong success.

Debbie Silver and Dedra Stafford present a practical handbook that guides teachers and parents in fostering learners who are socially and emotionally healthy and prepared to undertake future challenges.  Through practical examples, precise strategies, and specific tools this book demonstrates how to empower learners in areas that include:

  • Using mindfulness strategies to help students tap their inner strengths
  • Learning to self-regulate and control other executive brain functions
  • Developing growth mindsets along with perseverance and resilience
  • Cultivating a sense of responsibility, honesty, and integrity
  • Encouraging a capacity for empathy and gratitude

Grounded in decades of psychological research, Teaching Kids to Thrive merges academic, social, and self-skills to stimulate personal and school achievement.

Contents

Foreword

Foreword

About the Authors

About the Authors

Acknowledgments

Acknowledgments

INTRODUCTION

  • Why Teach Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) in the Classroom?
  • What Are the Thrive Skills?
  • Taking This Book to the Next Level (Thrive Website)
  • Thriving Together
  • CHAPTER 1. MINDFULNESS IN THE CLASSROOM: SLOWING DOWN TO SPEED UP SUCCESS
  • Why Don’t They Just Pay Attention?
  • Mindfulness: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • Using Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Beginning a Mindfulness Practice
  • Research on Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Implementation in the Classroom
  • What Supporting Mindfulness Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 2. HELPING STUDENTS WITH THEIR COMMAND AND CONTROL FUNCTIONS
  • Executive Function: What Is It?
  • The Six Skills of Executive Functioning
  • EF Skill 1: Self-Regulation and Self-Control
  • EF Skill 2: Working Memory
  • EF Skill 3: Task Initiation, Organization, and Time Management
  • EF Skill 4: Flexibility
  • EF Skill 5: Emotional Regulation
  • EF Skill 6: Focus
  • What Supporting Executive Function Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 3. CREATING STUDENT AGENCY THROUGH SELF-EFFICACY AND GROWTH MINDSET
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It?
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It Not? (Learned Helplessness)
  • Aim for the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD)
  • Students’ Beliefs About Success (Attribution Theory)
  • Growth vs. Fixed Mindsets
  • How Do We Help Students Develop Growth Mindsets?
  • What Supporting Self-Efficacy and Growth Mindset Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 4. PERSEVERANCE: PUSHING THROUGH DESPITE THE SETBACKS
  • Quit Now or Finish? What Makes the Difference?
  • Perseverance: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • What Educators Need to Know About Perseverance
  • What Does Perseverance Look Like in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Perseverance Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 5. BOUNCING BACK: TEACHING KIDS ABOUT RESILIENCE
  • Resilience: What Is It?
  • Acknowledge the Struggle
  • Normalize the Struggle
  • The Classroom as the Tribe
  • Resiliency in Boys
  • Developing Resiliency Through Competency
  • Building Hope
  • What Supporting Resilience Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 6. BUILDING A CULTURE OF RESPONSIBILITY IN THE CLASSROOM
  • Give Kids a Chance to Act Responsibly
  • Teaching Responsibility in an Entitled Society
  • Using Accountability to Promote Responsibility
  • Building a Culture of Responsibility
  • Teachers as Models of Responsibility
  • How Do We Reinforce Responsibility?
  • What Supporting Responsibility Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 7. CULTIVATING HONESTY AND INTEGRITY IN STUDENT CHOICES
  • How Do We Teach Personal Integrity?
  • How Do We Teach Academic Integrity?
  • What Do We Do When Children Cheat?
  • The Restorative Justice Approach
  • The Courage to Take a Stand
  • What Supporting Honesty and Integrity Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 8. TAPPING INTO EMPATHY
  • Empathy: What Is It?
  • Does Everyone Have Empathy?
  • What Does Empathy Look Like in Action?
  • Why Is It Important to Teach About Empathy?
  • Modeling Empathy in the Classroom
  • Service Learning Projects
  • Integrating Empathy Into the Curriculum
  • The Power of Empathy
  • What Supporting Empathy Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 9. IT’S ALL ABOUT GRATITUDE
  • “Pay It Forward” Is Still Thriving
  • Gratitude: What Is It?
  • What Research Tells Us About Gratitude
  • Why We Should Teach Gratitude in the Classroom
  • How Do We Teach Gratitude in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Gratitude Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action

Final Words

Final Words

References

References

Index

Index

Additional materials

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Teaching Kids to Thrive

Essential Skills for Success


April 2017 | 288 pages | Corwin

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There’s more to student success than standards and test scores…

The modern view of student achievement focuses on high test scores, higher standards, and racing to the top. Thrive skills fit with new ESSA requirements to go beyond basic academic measurements in order to equip students for lifelong success.

Debbie Silver and Dedra Stafford present a practical handbook that guides teachers and parents in fostering learners who are socially and emotionally healthy and prepared to undertake future challenges.  Through practical examples, precise strategies, and specific tools this book demonstrates how to empower learners in areas that include:

  • Using mindfulness strategies to help students tap their inner strengths
  • Learning to self-regulate and control other executive brain functions
  • Developing growth mindsets along with perseverance and resilience
  • Cultivating a sense of responsibility, honesty, and integrity
  • Encouraging a capacity for empathy and gratitude

Grounded in decades of psychological research, Teaching Kids to Thrive merges academic, social, and self-skills to stimulate personal and school achievement.


Table Of Contents:

  • Foreword
  • About the Authors
  • Acknowledgments
  • INTRODUCTION
  • Why Teach Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) in the Classroom?
  • What Are the Thrive Skills?
  • Taking This Book to the Next Level (Thrive Website)
  • Thriving Together
  • CHAPTER 1. MINDFULNESS IN THE CLASSROOM: SLOWING DOWN TO SPEED UP SUCCESS
  • Why Don’t They Just Pay Attention?
  • Mindfulness: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • Using Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Beginning a Mindfulness Practice
  • Research on Mindfulness in the Classroom
  • Implementation in the Classroom
  • What Supporting Mindfulness Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 2. HELPING STUDENTS WITH THEIR COMMAND AND CONTROL FUNCTIONS
  • Executive Function: What Is It?
  • The Six Skills of Executive Functioning
  • EF Skill 1: Self-Regulation and Self-Control
  • EF Skill 2: Working Memory
  • EF Skill 3: Task Initiation, Organization, and Time Management
  • EF Skill 4: Flexibility
  • EF Skill 5: Emotional Regulation
  • EF Skill 6: Focus
  • What Supporting Executive Function Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 3. CREATING STUDENT AGENCY THROUGH SELF-EFFICACY AND GROWTH MINDSET
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It?
  • Self-Efficacy: What Is It Not? (Learned Helplessness)
  • Aim for the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD)
  • Students’ Beliefs About Success (Attribution Theory)
  • Growth vs. Fixed Mindsets
  • How Do We Help Students Develop Growth Mindsets?
  • What Supporting Self-Efficacy and Growth Mindset Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 4. PERSEVERANCE: PUSHING THROUGH DESPITE THE SETBACKS
  • Quit Now or Finish? What Makes the Difference?
  • Perseverance: What It Is and What It Is Not
  • What Educators Need to Know About Perseverance
  • What Does Perseverance Look Like in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Perseverance Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 5. BOUNCING BACK: TEACHING KIDS ABOUT RESILIENCE
  • Resilience: What Is It?
  • Acknowledge the Struggle
  • Normalize the Struggle
  • The Classroom as the Tribe
  • Resiliency in Boys
  • Developing Resiliency Through Competency
  • Building Hope
  • What Supporting Resilience Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 6. BUILDING A CULTURE OF RESPONSIBILITY IN THE CLASSROOM
  • Give Kids a Chance to Act Responsibly
  • Teaching Responsibility in an Entitled Society
  • Using Accountability to Promote Responsibility
  • Building a Culture of Responsibility
  • Teachers as Models of Responsibility
  • How Do We Reinforce Responsibility?
  • What Supporting Responsibility Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 7. CULTIVATING HONESTY AND INTEGRITY IN STUDENT CHOICES
  • How Do We Teach Personal Integrity?
  • How Do We Teach Academic Integrity?
  • What Do We Do When Children Cheat?
  • The Restorative Justice Approach
  • The Courage to Take a Stand
  • What Supporting Honesty and Integrity Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 8. TAPPING INTO EMPATHY
  • Empathy: What Is It?
  • Does Everyone Have Empathy?
  • What Does Empathy Look Like in Action?
  • Why Is It Important to Teach About Empathy?
  • Modeling Empathy in the Classroom
  • Service Learning Projects
  • Integrating Empathy Into the Curriculum
  • The Power of Empathy
  • What Supporting Empathy Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • CHAPTER 9. IT’S ALL ABOUT GRATITUDE
  • “Pay It Forward” Is Still Thriving
  • Gratitude: What Is It?
  • What Research Tells Us About Gratitude
  • Why We Should Teach Gratitude in the Classroom
  • How Do We Teach Gratitude in the Classroom?
  • What Supporting Gratitude Looks Like in the Classroom
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • Discussion Questions and Exercises
  • Thrive Skills in Action
  • Final Words
  • References
  • Index

Recent Product Reviews:

"The 2017-2018 school year started off with a great excitement in Roxbury this year! With the support of Corwin, our district was delighted to welcome Mrs. Debbie Silver, author of Teaching Kids to Thrive, Deliberate Optimism, and Fall Down 7 Times, Get up 8, as keynote speaker. She delivered an exhilarating address to over 500 staff members getting them excited about the prospect of a new school year, mindfulness strategies, and self-efficacy. She then led independent breakout sessions for our elementary and secondary populations with a focus on stress management and deliberate optimism. I can't imagine a better way to have kicked off our school year and gotten our staff excited about the return of our students than Debbie. She was entertaining, heart-warming, and knowledgeable, what a perfect combination. I would recommend Debbie to any school looking to establish these skills without hesitation."
Charles Seipp, Roxbury School District, Massachusettes
"Teaching Kids to Thrive: Essential Skills for Success is a book that not only argues effectively for including social and emotional learning in every classroom, it also shows teachers how to do it. Debbie Silver and Dedra Stafford demonstrate how SEL instruction can be woven into all subject areas at every level of preK-12 education. They descriptively outline what SEL-friendly classrooms look like, and they provide a wealth of tools and strategies for educators who want to teach beyond the standards. I recommend this book for new and veteran teachers alike who want to help students learn to thrive both now and throughout their future lives."
Todd Whitaker, Professor of Educational Leadership, Indiana State University, Terre Haute, IN
"Reading Teaching Kids to Thrive was like feeding my brain with PopRocks! It had me captivated, wondering, and marveling…all at the same time. Debbie and Dedra provide insightful research, actionable skills, and inspirational stories, while recognizing the voices of students and teachers at the turn of every page."
Dr. Russell J. Quaglia, Executive Director, Quaglia Institute for School Voice & Aspirations, Portland, ME
"There are some books that you pick up and just cannot put down. Well, this is one of them. If you are ready to move beyond grit, then Teaching Kids to Thrive is the linchpin needed in every school system. The authors provide relevant research to build their case and share easy and simple teacher-approved strategies that can be used immediately. Any stakeholder in education who wants to transform school culture must make Teaching Kids to Thrive required reading."
Simon T. Bailey and Marceta Reilly, Authors, Releasing Leadership Brilliance
"Debbie Silver and Debra Stafford go to the heart of schooling students in this century - addressing the power of mindfulness, the value of empathy, and boosting the resilience of young people at a time the world requires such a skill the most. Using relatable stories and strategies the goal to help students THRIVE is central in every chapter. Like a favorite piece of music, the authors' passion for education is extremely contagious and memorable."
Jennifer Buchanan, MBA, MTA, President/Speaker/Author, Calgary, Alberta

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