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In these games, the prize is success in school—and life.

Having good social skills doesn’t just affect classroom behavior—it’s the key to making learning stick. When students improve their self-regulation, social communication, and perspective-taking competencies, they are better prepared to challenge themselves academically, take on tough tasks, and collaborate with teachers and classmates to achieve real, lasting school success. And since these skills also improve life outside school, the benefits come full circle.

Designed for both explicit instruction and “learning by doing,” this practical guide provides hands-on activities that are easily adapted into any curriculum and can be used in general education, special education, after-school settings, and in the home. The design of each game keeps kids engaged and motivated, while educators benefit from clear, thorough explanations that unpack the complexities of social learning. Other behind-the-scenes features include:

  • Evidence-based, teacher-tested lessons
  • Anecdotes and real-world examples
  • Links to relevant research
  • Expansion ideas for applying learned skills to broader situations
  • Templates and reproducibles for easy implementation

This curated collection of activities puts social-learning theory into practice, helping even the most challenging children develop the social skills necessary for real success in school—and beyond.


 
List of Tables and Figures
 
Foreword by Kari Dunn Buron
 
Preface
 
Acknowledgments
 
About the Authors
 
Introduction: Why Social Learning? Why Now?
What Is the Need for Social Learning?

 
What Is the Ideal Approach to Social Learning?

 
What Does Social Learning Look Like for Students?

 
 
SECTION 1. TEACHING SELF-REGULATION
 
Chapter 1. Self-Regulation: The Basics
Self-Regulation Lesson Plans Overview

 
What Is Self-Regulation?

 
Cognitive Skills

 
The Sensory System

 
 
Chapter 2. Lesson Plans for Teaching Self-Regulation
Self-Regulation Lesson Plans Overview

 
Lesson 1: Suspend

 
Lesson 2: Taboo

 
Lesson 3: Tenzi

 
Lesson 4: Chill Out

 
Lesson 5: Flexibility Points

 
Lesson 6: Balloon Release

 
Lesson 7: Uno

 
Lesson 8: Personal Space Role Play

 
Lesson 9: Skip Bo

 
Lesson 10: Spit

 
 
SECTION 2. TEACHING SOCIAL COMMUNICATION
 
Chapter 3. Social Communication: The Basics
Relationship Types

 
Complexities of Social Communication

 
Nonverbal Communication

 
Teaching Conversation

 
 
Chapter 4. Lesson Plans for Teaching Social Communication
Social Communication Lesson Plans Overview

 
Lesson 1: Hidden Message

 
Lesson 2: I Doubt It

 
Lesson 3: Follow-Up Questions

 
Lesson 4: Hedbanz

 
Lesson 5: Relationship Type Card Sort

 
Lesson 6: 5 Second Rule

 
Lesson 7: Hidden Objects

 
Lesson 8: Ball Toss Communication

 
Lesson 9: Word on the Street

 
Lesson 10: Beanbag Crash

 
 
SECTION 3. TEACHING PERSPECTIVE-TAKING
 
Chapter 5. Perspective-Taking: The Basics
Theory of Mind

 
Social Cognitive Theory

 
Informal Assessment Tasks

 
The Intersection of Perspective-Taking and Social Communication

 
Hidden Curriculum

 
Levels of Friendship

 
Listen, Care, Change

 
“Comic Strip Conversations” and “Social Stories”

 
 
Chapter 6. Lesson Plans for Teaching Perspective-Taking
Perspective-Taking Lesson Plans Overview

 
Lesson 1: “Apples to Apples” Personalized

 
Lesson 2: Celebrity

 
Lesson 3: Telephone in Pictures and Words

 
Lesson 4: Spoons

 
Lesson 5: Suspicion

 
Lesson 6: Picture Sequencing Activity

 
Lesson 7: Faceland

 
Lesson 8: Listen, Care, Change

 
Lesson 9: Guess My Gaze

 
Lesson 10: Bubble Talk

 
 
Chapter 7. Conclusion
 
Resources
 
References

"This book is a perfect guide for teaching social learning in a fun, collaborative, and simple way for people of all ages! It provides practical, realistic and useful guidance, as well as ease and utility for practitioners and teachers with the content and in the way the book is structured."

Kimberly Mendenhall Brennan
University of Hawaii

"It can be challenging for educators to find resources  for students who struggle with social skills and self-regulation. This book is a good resource for those working with students with autism spectrum disorders."

Karen Eastman, PhD Professor, Special Education
Minnesota State University, Mankato

"This book has everything you need to teach students with fun, engaging, hands on lessons and activities that will transform their social skills!"

Renee Bernhardt
International Dyslexia Association

"Teachers require a broad pedagogic skill base as they address the issue of educating the whole-child. This book provides a repertoire of practical, proven SE strategies that work in a variety of classrooms. It is an essential resource for hardworking teachers and educators."

Dr Neil MacNeill, PhD.
Ellenbrook Independent Primary School, Australia

"This book provides accessible, ready-to-use lesson-plans with research links to build understanding and practice of key social emotional skills such as self-regulation, social communication, and perspective taking."

Katie Aeschleman
Conejo Valley Unified School District

"The format of the book provides practical and realistic strategies by presenting a research base follow by explicit strategy presentation for each topic.  The authors present the best of both worlds in providing brief theory/rationale while including techniques that can be used by a wide variety of child-serving professionals.  It has a solid research base and the authors convey thorough knowledge of the subject matter, as well as real-world experience.

Chris Grace
St. Mary’s County Public Schools

"Teachers know that if we want students to be able to learn, we have to build a foundation of trust. This book is one of those foundational, handy books that combines research, implementation techniques, and activities that are easy to use. Every new teacher, as well as veteran teachers, need to have this in their hands."

Jennifer Harper
Cavendish Town Elementary School

"Demystifying social learning through games is not only an effective and engaging strategy, it is paramount to supporting students in today’s world of multifaceted communication. This book has a number of “ready-to-use” lesson plans that will provide explicit instructions and “learning-by-doing” activities.


Carrie Carpenter

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